不要把快乐建在别人痛苦上

有一种人。。。
容易在言语中得罪朋友，心直口快的个性，说话常常不懂修饰，上一秒才出现的念头，还没经过思考，下一秒就讲出口了。你凡事太以自我为中心，有时候玩笑开过头，已经中伤到周遭的朋友，你还觉得很有趣，享受他们的反应

why ppl dont like other discuss their personality? many differ reasons.
-some like to keep low profile,
-some hate ppl misunderstand them, thats why when ppl said them. they will 反应激烈, and declare they are not like what ppl talk. they hate ppl give wrong info.
-some ppl hate other ppl act like very understand them.
-人有自尊，even primary school kid also got, thats why teacher know to control themself and not to make the kid feel uncomfortable

why some joke can't play? cos it bring hurt to ppl.
不要攻击别人的伤口，真的很痛，人心易粹，就像玻璃

and we have to respect other, if they don't like， then don't purpose did that on them, just to see their reaction.
不要把快乐建在别人痛苦上

诽谤别人更

if got comment on ur friend, best is one on one talk to her/him, not become TVNews station go 宣传Everywhere.

and if sendiri dont like other talk about u, then u dont do the same thing on other，
已所不欲，勿施于人。


if u like ppl treat you good, dont go jealous other relationship, and said something hurt other and 诽谤别人, that will only make u......lost more friend and support, and give other a bad image that you are person 心胸狭窄

If u dont wan like this...then..

Learn to change and improve urself, that you will get fav by friends, mix with friend, even found friends that make u touching.


人是自私的，只想着别人怎么对你不够好，很少想着怎么伤害了别人

Thats the theory i also learning.